10 Hard Habits Women Need to Learn from Men

With no offence to all my feminist colleagues, friends, and readers, I am here today to throw some light on men’s positive attitude, habits, and all their best traits that are full of energy and life that if adopted by women it would make them even stronger than ever. I am not at all saying that women are less in their habits, attitudes, traits, but this world needs both genders to run smoothly and each gender has their own best features. Even men should learn how to juggle between work, kids’ PTM, candlelight dinners, and plumbing early morning from all my beautiful and powerful women out there, including me. 😛 

But yes, there are certain things about men that make their women feel happy, content, carefree, protected, secured, and rest assured. Men never manifest their emotions and exhaustion that easily to anyone, and thanks to their inability of expressing their emotions and feelings. This habit can be sometimes disadvantageous for romantic relationships, but in real chaotic life it helps women somehow. I mean c’mon every woman at least once in her lifetime would have run the thought that men’s life is easier, and they live so effortlessly. And some may also have envied their men. You cannot blame me for that, ladies. And to be honest partially this is true. The truth is men have a lot of habits, traits, and virtues that are so easy that half of this humanity should learn it. Well, yes, they do get confused and do not get all the shades of pink, or never get their scatter socks together and never close the lid of a toothpaste tube, but there are certain hard habits that women need to learn from men. And here they are:

1. No drama

I mean I can guess I’m going to be banned from the women’s society ASAP, but here is the truth. We are the so-called drama queens, and we are proud of it. Well, that may make us different from men, but do we really need to incorporate drama in everything. Life is naturally full of drama and adding more to it can make it so cheesy. Let’s keep it blunt and cut the drama from next time.

2. Get straight to the point

We all know how many merry-go-rounds we do when we try to say something to our family or friends or even our partners. Why cannot we cut the drama out of it again, for God’s sake and come to the point fearlessly like a warrior. We are all humans and speaking of what we believe, and feel should be easy and straight not confusing and full of twists.

3. Take the lead

Admit it or not, we women secretively love the men who take the lead confidently, starting from the workplace, parties, fun trips or even sex. But have you thought, men might be expecting the same. You might not be enough to turn them on or captivate them. Even if not about impressing, taking the lead boosts your virtues and confidence to be the boss lady which is one of the hardest habits that women need to learn from men.

4. Be messy occasionally

Yeah, those wet towels on bed, stinky socks under the couch and one over it, using that sweaty and stinky shirt for a week all over again sounds gross right? But, even if we do not go that gross level, being messy makes us a bit far from perfection or being particular about everything. Won’t it make us care about something less? Won’t it make us carefree and relaxed? Won’t you be happy for not pushing yourself hard to be perfect?

5. Learn fearless parenting

In 65% of both gender of parents, women are the ones who fear a lot and limit their children from trying and exploring stuffs as compared to men. Fathers mostly encourage and boost their children to fight their fear and win over their weaknesses and mothers, as they are protective keep reminding their child about the consequences of trying every new stuff. So, yes ladies we need to learn fearless parenting like men.

6. Be a risk fanatic

Men are undoubtedly risk takers. They love taking risks, and that is the reason why they love adventures. On the other hand, women whenever sense there lies the risk ahead, they simply change the course of their speech or actions or decisions to play safe. But risks are worth taking and can also lead you to success plus lifetime opportunities.

7. Let your anger explode and flush it

Women are great in sucking up their emotions and still flaunting a big wide bright smile. Women even if when hurt, or getting their anger build up manifest silence to avoid worst scenarios and silently work on their emotions. But men do the opposite, they burst when in anger, and the next moment all the puzzled and hurtful baggage get flushed out of their system, which is healthy and wise process for improved mental health. So, ladies let your anger explode which is a hard habit that women to learn from men.

8. Drop your grudge baggage

Men never hold grudge even if they had a bad fight with their worst enemies. They resolve their issues with a single beer. They might be fighting in a moment, but the next moment they get over those negative emotions with no hard feelings. But women, uuggghhh.. Do I have to say this? Well, forgive and move on.

9. Stop being an emotional eater

Dealing with stress, frustration and sadness, women always become emotional eater and consume all sorts of sugar and calories in a night or two to deal with their strong confused emotions. But men they deal with it silently yet healthily. 

10. Commit fashion blunders more often

We women need to be so perfect and up to date when it comes to fashion and trend. We can never make fashion blunders; I mean it is a like a taboo for all women, I guess. But is it that necessary or do really people around us care about it? When we all say, we are not here to impress everyone, but still, we consistently dress up sharp to avoid judgements over out fashion sense. However, men never care what others think about their dress sense which is another hard habit that women need to learn from men. They can wear sneakers to a party without giving it a second thought, so why can’t we?